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	<description>Working on putting the jigsaw back together</description>
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		<title>Comment on Once upon a time&#8230; by castorgirl</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/once-upon-a-time/#comment-1324</link>
		<dc:creator>castorgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 09:48:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you</p>
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		<title>Comment on Once upon a time&#8230; by Sarah</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/once-upon-a-time/#comment-1321</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 07:02:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, this was an incredibly powerful post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, this was an incredibly powerful post.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Moving the blog by castorgirl</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/09/14/moving-the-blog/#comment-1319</link>
		<dc:creator>castorgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 20:51:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Paul.  I used one of the WordPress themes, but it&#039;s not as flexible as I&#039;d like, so I&#039;m looking for another theme or options.

Kind regards
M</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Paul.  I used one of the WordPress themes, but it&#8217;s not as flexible as I&#8217;d like, so I&#8217;m looking for another theme or options.</p>
<p>Kind regards<br />
M</p>
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		<title>Comment on Moving the blog by Paul</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/09/14/moving-the-blog/#comment-1318</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 13:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry... meant good job M.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry&#8230; meant good job M.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Moving the blog by Paul</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 13:51:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, Good job B!!!! If you need help, let me know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, Good job B!!!! If you need help, let me know.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Once upon a time&#8230; by castorgirl</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/once-upon-a-time/#comment-1316</link>
		<dc:creator>castorgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:26:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really?  It&#039;s possibly my massive inferiority complex thinking that it wouldn&#039;t fit in, or couldn&#039;t be part of anything that important.  I&#039;ll think about it again and see if everyone is willing to take the risk of more people reading about something so personal.

Take care :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really?  It&#8217;s possibly my massive inferiority complex thinking that it wouldn&#8217;t fit in, or couldn&#8217;t be part of anything that important.  I&#8217;ll think about it again and see if everyone is willing to take the risk of more people reading about something so personal.</p>
<p>Take care :)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Once upon a time&#8230; by castorgirl</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/once-upon-a-time/#comment-1315</link>
		<dc:creator>castorgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kerro,

I was thinking over the quality of the different memories - childhood versus adult, and realised that they do have quite a different feel about them.  I think the main difference is that I still live in the house where I was abused throughout most of the marriage.  So it&#039;s easy to imagine him coming around the corner etc.

I know what you mean about losing yourself.  It such as easy thing to happen when you&#039;ve had your personal boundaries trampled over for most of your life.  You lose that definition of what makes up &quot;you&quot;.

Sending lots of positive thoughts and (((warm safe hugs))) your way.  
Take care...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kerro,</p>
<p>I was thinking over the quality of the different memories &#8211; childhood versus adult, and realised that they do have quite a different feel about them.  I think the main difference is that I still live in the house where I was abused throughout most of the marriage.  So it&#8217;s easy to imagine him coming around the corner etc.</p>
<p>I know what you mean about losing yourself.  It such as easy thing to happen when you&#8217;ve had your personal boundaries trampled over for most of your life.  You lose that definition of what makes up &#8220;you&#8221;.</p>
<p>Sending lots of positive thoughts and (((warm safe hugs))) your way.<br />
Take care&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on When friendship stuns and amazes&#8230; by Scattered pieces &#187; Demonising parts</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/01/18/stunandamazes/#comment-1314</link>
		<dc:creator>Scattered pieces &#187; Demonising parts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 10:15:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] to sex.  Another indication that she is more than what I imagine her to be, is one of her interactions with Kriss earlier this year.  Yes, that conversation involved sex, but it was discussing the past.  She was [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] to sex.  Another indication that she is more than what I imagine her to be, is one of her interactions with Kriss earlier this year.  Yes, that conversation involved sex, but it was discussing the past.  She was [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Once upon a time&#8230; by jumpinginpuddles</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/once-upon-a-time/#comment-1312</link>
		<dc:creator>jumpinginpuddles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 01:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hmmm i think this would be an exceptional post to use</description>
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		<title>Comment on Once upon a time&#8230; by Kerro</title>
		<link>http://castorgirl.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/once-upon-a-time/#comment-1311</link>
		<dc:creator>Kerro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 11:05:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Odd, isn&#039;t it? I mean I also consider myself more accountable for what happened to me as an adult... though oddly those memories don&#039;t terrorise me quite as much as the childhood ones. 

I did lose myself... as a child, and then as an adult. I&#039;ve been so lost for so long I don&#039;t even know who &quot;I&quot; am, but I&#039;m hoping that my therapist will help me find out.

I do believe you are courageous - for doing what you did at the time, for sharing it with us now, for your creative work that must be such a wondeful outlet for you, for just being you, really. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Odd, isn&#8217;t it? I mean I also consider myself more accountable for what happened to me as an adult&#8230; though oddly those memories don&#8217;t terrorise me quite as much as the childhood ones. </p>
<p>I did lose myself&#8230; as a child, and then as an adult. I&#8217;ve been so lost for so long I don&#8217;t even know who &#8220;I&#8221; am, but I&#8217;m hoping that my therapist will help me find out.</p>
<p>I do believe you are courageous &#8211; for doing what you did at the time, for sharing it with us now, for your creative work that must be such a wondeful outlet for you, for just being you, really. :)</p>
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